Monday, April 19, 2010

A Time for Everything...

Print Friendly and PDF I'm reading a book, "Simple Abundance- A Daybook of Comfort and Joy" by Sarah Ban Breathnach. As I was reading this page, I found it so interesting and optimistic I had to share it with you. Its a passage from this book...Enjoy.

There is a time for everything,
And a season for every activity under heaven - Ecclesiastes 3:1

Yes,but they are not the same.
You cannot raise happy, secure ,emotionally well adjusted children, revel in a fabulous marraige, and work a sixty-hour week.
You want to, I know. So do I. But we can't. It is physically , emotionally. psychologically, and spiritually impossible. We have tried. We have failed.
We cannot circumvent the laws of Heaven and Earth just because it would be convenient. Just because it would fit nicely into our plans. We have tried. We have failed.
When we cannot do it all at the same time, we are meant to do only some of it. In order to find out what that "some" is to be, we need to ask : What is it I truly want right now ? What is it I truly need ? How do I get it ? How much does it cost in life's currency ?
This might be the season for you to wipe a runny nose. That does'nt mean the season of running your own business won't occur. This might be the season of living out of a suitcase. That doesn't mean the season of restoring a colonial farmhouse will never come. Making deals doesn't mean that someday you won't be making school lunches. The seasons of life are not meant to be frenetic, just full.
"You probably can have it all," Anna Quindlen muses. " Just not all at the same time. And might have to make certain compromises when your children are small. But your children are going to be small for a very short period of time... it will go by in a blink of an eye, and you will only be 40, 50, or 60 with another 15 or 25 years ahead of you." A quarter of a century to do what you want to do, the way you want to do it.
Blessed is the woman who knows her own limits.

So signing off for the night with this thought provoking excerpt from this book...


  1. A very thought provoking read. Loved it to the fullest. Very true and if we understand these basics, there will be no depression or 'low' days in sight :):)Thanks for sharing a wonderful message.

  2. That was surely a dusting on minds..... Nothing stays for long.... Just like there is a day after night, there has to be light after dark..... When happy days could not stay for long, how can sad days make their stay.....!!!!

    Love & Hugs))))


  3. Ms. Chitchat - Its so true..I agree with u..if we know this we'll no longer have 'low days' and we'll know that there will be a time for the things we want to do..
    Ash- Thanks for ur wonderful thoughts you shared. Very optimistic just like YOU. Love and Hugs to you as well..

  4. First time here. Liked the thoughts you've written about. In life we want to do so many things but everything doesn't come up to our expectations. There is space for Adjustment which is Favourable.